I believe that the central enabler of the shadow is the belief that the real object does not exist: I know this is true. My mother was evil. I never found a therapist who did not say, “Oh my gosh, what did you do when she did THAT!?!?” No friend ever said, ‘’How awful that your mom hurt you like that:(‘. It was ‘Why did she do THAT?!?…
I believe that the central enabler of the shadow is the belief that the real object does not exist: I know this is true. My mother was evil. I never found a therapist who did not say, “Oh my gosh, what did you do when she did THAT!?!?” No friend ever said, ‘’How awful that your mom hurt you like that:(‘. It was ‘Why did she do THAT?!?!’ Nobody believes there is real evil. Humans want to understand patterns. Evil people do not have human patterns. If you try to understand them it ruins the circuits of any true human’s mind. We need a more mature understanding of evil.
I believe that the central enabler of the shadow is the belief that the real object does not exist: I know this is true. My mother was evil. I never found a therapist who did not say, “Oh my gosh, what did you do when she did THAT!?!?” No friend ever said, ‘’How awful that your mom hurt you like that:(‘. It was ‘Why did she do THAT?!?!’ Nobody believes there is real evil. Humans want to understand patterns. Evil people do not have human patterns. If you try to understand them it ruins the circuits of any true human’s mind. We need a more mature understanding of evil.
Totally agree!!
The "mature understanding" of evil is through Faith, no other is possible.
It is like associates who have studied Communism, I always say if you stare into that eye long enough, it stares back!